Monday, October 13, 2008

Pregnancy

If you missed the pregnancy announcement...as some of you said you didn't know what I was talking about in my last post, scan down to the video of Jackson (a few posts down. It is titled "Jackson has something to say...")


I am still trying to figure out my doctor situation, it has definitely been a stress to figure out what doctor to go to in a a brand new place. I was excited to hear that there is a great doctor that most of the girls in the ward go to, only to be crushed when I called his office and found out that he isn't taking anymore patients. I will just have to keep asking around and I know it will all work out eventually.

But in the meantime...

Marc called a OBGYN clinic, that is for resident doctors at UCLA, and found that I could go there for FREE! So I quickly made an appointment so I could finally get some answers and know a little more about how the pregnancy is going. (you might be wondering why I don't just use this clinic...well, it makes me a little nervous... 3rd year medical students see you at all of your check-ups and then a resident student doctor delivers you...not so sure I like that idea).

Anyway, it turned out to be quite the traumatic experience.

First they pulled me in to ask me all sorts of questions...I think they must get a lot of young student girls in there who didn't "plan" on getting pregnant. I realized this when they were asking me questions to make sure that Marc treated me well and to make sure I had considered adoption, instead of abortion. I quickly let them know that we were both really happy and we were planning on keeping the baby. After about an hour of questions, she took me into another room to draw my blood.

Let me preface this next part...if you know me, you know that I have a body part that most people probably don't even take notice of. It has terrified me to have it touched or even talked about at times. I'm weird, right?! I know, but seirously, yuck. Anyway, I fondly refer to it as my "elbow pit", the inside of your arm, behind your elbow. So I *used to* HATE HATE HATE having my blood drawn. The very first time I had to have my blood drawn with Jackson I started bawling before they even did anything and the girl asked if another girl would come and hold my hand...baby...who me?! ha. I got a lot better about it when I was pregnant with Jackson because they draw your blood so often and haven't made a fool out of myself with this one for a LONG time!

So my blood drawing experience....
She had me sit on the edge of a folding chair and put my arm across the table to take my blood. She poked me with the needle about three or four times before she told me that she wasn't going to be able to take my blood because I have "rolling veins". I have never had anyone complain about my veins before! Anyway, other woman came in and quickly took my blood, with no problems. Except that for me, while the second woman was taking my blood, I realized I was going to pass out. I told her before it happened and laid my head on my arm. Apparently I was out of a while and my blood pressure really dropped so they were worried. As I was coming to I suddenly realized I was going to throw up. I told them and luckily they were able to get a bucket in front of me before it happened. There were about 5 people in the room when I woke up from passing out. It must have been some great excitement and a learning experience for all those resident student doctors. :)

After all that excitement they put me in a room and wouldn't let me drive home until Marc came to get me. Luckily Marc was able to get me. I was really glad I had left Jackson with one of the girls in our ward. The "quick" doctors appointment turned into a 4 hour ordeal and I am sure Jackson would've been traumatized by seeing me pass out and throw up! :)

Anyway, I am still on the look out for a doctor, but at least I survived my first doctors appointment! :) I will have to let you know if anything else exciting happens! :)

****Oh, I am about 16 weeks along and due at the end of March. Until I have an ultrasound though I won't know my "actual" due date. So just keep your fingers crossed that I can figure this out soon and get into a doctor for an ultrasound! I want one so bad. (oh, the clinic that I went to doesn't do ultrasounds...shucks. Wouldn't that have been great?!)We have definitely been enjoying the beach. Just a few pictures of some of our trips there. You have to look at somethign after reading that long post about my pregnancy.

12 comments:

Kara and Kevin said...

Wow, already 16 weeks. How great to be there already. You look great! I am sorry about the whole experince with your blood being taken, I bet you are glad that is over. That would be crazy to pass out.

Lyssa Beth said...

That is great news about the pregnancy and not so great news about the appointment! Same thing happened to me with #1!! I pretty much passed out and had to sit there forever..there were tears and sweat flashes...luckily no throw up but it came pretty close...the same thing happened at my pre-marriage dr's apt. too..kind of nervous on that one!
I can't wait to hear all about it!

Cortney said...

Holy Cow, what an experience! Oh, and you look awesome for being 16 weeks pregnant!

The Tarin Family said...

Wow! 16 weeks already! how exciting!
You should keep trying that clinic that isn't taking anyone anymore... people are constantly having babies, so I bet it's just a matter of time to get in... I'd keep trying if I were you though.
I'll keep my fingers crossed for you! Good luck! And Congratulations again!

melimba said...

I can't believe you are already 16 weeks! you go, girl!

loved/hated the story! LOVED the fact that I had to laugh at the ordeal of it all, hated the fact that they bombed with the poking and such---a patient out cold, then throwing up isn't quite the "success" story!

good times at the student clinics!

Katie said...

what an experience! wow. Well, I really wish I were at the beach right now...it is FREEZING here in utah!

Camie said...

CONGRATULATIONS!! Oh my! That is a crazy Dr. experience--definitely a story to tell. It sounds like they aren't used to working with 'normal' people like you who actually are excited to have a baby!

Camille said...

Wow, that is very traumatic! I also used to pass out when I would get shots or have blood drawn, so I can totally feel your pain. It sounds like they didn't exactly know what they were doing, which didn't help matters. I'm glad you survived! :) That's so exciting about your pregnancy though...I am 19 weeks along and due at the beginning of March! It will be fun to follow your pregnancy! We find out what we're having next week.

Also, about finding a doctor, I had the same stress for this pregnancy, since we've moved since Christian was born. It took me forever to find one. Good luck, and remember, if you don't like the one you choose, you can always switch, rather than be miserable. Keep me posted! I'm so excited for you!

Leslie said...

I had to laugh when you wrote about how they were questioning your pregnancy motives. The same thing happens here. The nurses and doctor kept asking me if this was a planned pregnancy. As though it were impossible to believe that a 24 year old woman would deliberately choose to have a baby. I just laughed and reassured them that I was married in a wonderful, stable relationship and that this was a planned pregnancy. One girl in my ward was asked if the father of the baby was still in her life, when she went in for her pregnancy at the age of 22. Hahaha. Makes me laugh. "I don't think we're in [Utah] anymore, Toto."

Anyway, I'm excited for you and hope that you can find a good doctor and a hospital that you are comfortable with.

erin said...

Well that is one exciting doctor's appointment! :) I'm glad you survived to tell about it! And you look fabulous for 16 weeks pregnant!!! I hope you have better experiences from here on out! And I affectionately refer to my "elbow pit" all of the time now because of you!!! :)

Emily said...

Passing out and vomiting! I am so sorry, ugh! But it's true you can't beat FREE. Still though, I hope you find a Dr. you are comfortable with, it is so important, really. And totally don't worry about getting back to me, we'll both be here for awhile so we're bound to work something out! Hopefully sooner rather than later! And meeting somewhere would be fun. I don't have a Disneyland pass yet, I really want to get one but it might not be until after the baby is born. But it seems like it's totally worth it!

the Sisters said...

Congrats!! That's so exciting. I can totally relate to your blood-drawing phobia. I have it too! The first time I had to get blood work done I totally bawled I was so scared! Then they poked me like 5 times and ended up having to go to the other arm- I was so panic stricken! Then when they finally got it, I passed out! They made me lay they forever once I "came to" and eat animal crackers and drink apple juice. Now I tell the nurses I have to lay down for blood work and they have to use the smallest needle. UGH! I still hate it though!