Monday, October 06, 2008

Going Private


You can't tell me that you wouldn't do
everything in your power to keep this cute face safe.... :)

I really hate to do this and have sworn to myself I never would, simply because I find too much fun looking though other people's blogs and always hate when they have to go private. Sometimes they are people that don't realize I am "blog stalking" them and I don't have to guts to out right tell them to add me to there list, because well...they don't know me all too well or they know me, but they are just an acquaintance from somewhere in my past (not a really good friend, but someone that I know somehow). My friend Rachael said it best on her blog recently

"For you "privates" -- haven't you ever been on a friend's blog, clicked on someone you know from their links list again and again until you found yourself on a long-lost whoever's page? It's thrilling -- try it if you haven't. It's better than People magazine.
You may be arguing, "well if you know them anyway, then it doesn't matter if their blog is private because they can put you on their 'list'. " This is the delicate part. These exciting blog-discoveries tend to be those of acquaintences , former peers, or just people I gawked at in high school (their blog gives me to opportunity to continue to gawk). It's a lot less creepy than it sounds because while we aren't close friends, they could probably pick me out of a line-up."

Rach, I completely agree with you and am sorry to be doing this, but....

.....after a few Long conversations with several people and a strange email I've decided that it's not safe for me to put so much information out there about our lives. There are just too many wierdo's out there and lets face it, I am not living in cute little Alpine anymore! :)

I don't like the idea of people knowing so much about us and our goings and comings; with cute little Jackson and another baby on the way. I would feel absolutely terrible if anything were to ever happen because of the information that I posted on our blog.

To any of you who are interested in being able to have access to our blog please leave your email in a comment below or email me with your email and I will add you.....

our email: rasfamily(at)gmail(dot)com

*****To any of you blog stalkers***** out there that are stalking in the, not so stalkerish way, a friend or acquaintance from the past, however you may know us, high school, elementary school, a student ward, college, a friend of a friend...whatever you are....please feel free to leave your email too. We love having you and would be sad if you decided not to stay. :) It won't weird us out and we won't think strange things of you, actually I find it quite flattering that you would be interested in reading out blog, so please continue by emailing me or commenting with your email.

43 comments:

Katie and Eric said...

Hey Michelle...put us on your list.
katieachristensen@gmail.com

amy stansel said...

oh my gosh!! did i miss your pregnancy announcement??!?!! Congrats!!! I am really excited for you!! When are you due?

Mitzi said...

Add us to the list
MitziRobinson@gmail.com

Camie said...

Hi Michelle--keep me in the loop of your blog!! And CONGRATS on baby #2!! So exciting!

Lindsay said...

definitely keep me on your list: geilmans@gmail.com
I totally know how your feel about going private...and I Totally would be too if I lived where you did--not quite as safe as Alpine :)

Unknown said...

I totally understand what you are saying. I agree with it all completely. I have been thinking about going private forever and I think it is now time too. Do you mind if I use some of your wording on my post too? You said it just perfect. I am totally one of those crazy blog stalkers from time to time and hate when I hit a private blog but in all honesty I think you are right about protecting your family. My e-mail is tnejperry@gmail.com

Liz said...

even though we can't ever talk to each other please keep me on there! love ya mich!

Camie said...

camie.larsen@gmail.com
I don't blame you a bit for going private! I hope that you're feeling okay!

Cortney said...

Please don't leave me off the list--I definitely want to be able to read your blog! And congrats on baby #2. Was this a subtle way of telling or did I just totally miss something announced earlier? I'm so excited for you!

Janette said...

Hey Michelle~ My email is jjroundy@gmail.com. I would love to stay in touch with you. And Congrats on the baby, that's so exciting!!

Emily said...

I totally understand and will probably be doing this in the future as well. Add me to your invites! mrsemilywhite@gmail.com

Katie said...

add us too!! We love reading your blog to know what is going on in your life. :) kjergy@gmail.com

Jenny said...

First of all, congratulations on your baby news! And we miss you in Alpine.

Second of all, from one blog stalker to another, I would love it if you added me to your invites. jbxanthos@gmail.com

erin said...

Add us too!
erinnoel8@yahoo.com

Ryan and Brittney said...

don't worry about adding me to the list....I don't like looking at your blog anyways--it's more of a chore than a party. haha jk. add my email address too.

Ashley A. said...

Add me too, if you don't mind Michelle. ashleyaatkin@gmail.com. Congratulations on baby #2! That video of Jackson was really cute. He'll be a good big brother.

Camille said...

I don't blame you one bit. I have gone back and forth many times on the private issue. Definitely add me so I can keep up with you and your cute family! :)

camillemerkley@gmail.com

the Sisters said...

don't forget us! lyndsaylmartin@gmail.com

Elizabeth said...

I definitely want to keep reading! I can't remember if I posted on your pregnancy annoucement, but congrats!!! We're excited for you!

Mays and Matt said...

I'm in. mayslind@gmail.com, and CONGRATS on the baby!! I'm so happy for you! I miss you guys, but your mom says you're doing really well. I'm glad!

The Tarin Family said...

Please add me to your list! Stauffs_12984@yahoo.com
Congrats on the baby! That's so exciting! You will need to post a blog with your due date and how far along you are... I'm very intrested to know! I hope you are doing well though and morning sickness isn't too bad! Congratulations though! I'm so happy for you all!

Jessica Davis said...

Congrats on the baby!!! Please add me to the list...jnallydavis@gmail.com

MidCityGal said...

Michelle, congrats on your baby announcement. That's awesome news. Please add me to the list: lw262 @ hotmail .com . I'd love to keep reading your blog.

I don't blame you at all for wanting to go private. However, I just want to point out that if you feel like there is a specific threat (i.e. a true stalker), simply having a password probably isn't going to stop them. It's definitely a deterrent, but the information anyone records to a blog is still stored on a server somewhere, and could be hacked into, if someone really wanted to.

That being said, having a private blog definitely allows you to prevent anyone from gaining interest in your family in the first place. Just a thought.

Katrina said...

Congrats on the new baby! That is so exciting. And please add me to your list. You can use redheadmusings AT gmail DOT com

Lindsey Walker said...

Please count us in!! lacrosselinz22@yahoo.com

Grant said...

Yep, we blog stalk you! Add us too
brynstucki@gmail.com

Marianne said...

Don't forget me on the list! I know we haven't talked much recently, but you could consider me a blog-stalker! Congrats on the new pregnancy and I was with Liz last weekend in Boston and she's actually the one that gave me the news! I hope all is well with you guys and I love getting tidbits of your life from your blog, so keep us in the loop if you can! mariannedunn@gmail.com

Danielle said...

i'd love an invite. dani_621@yahoo.com

mckenna said...

I love to!! I love keeping up with you guys!! mckennaralls@hotmail.com And congratulations on the second pregnancy!! I don't know how I missed that announcement, but it's new news to me!

Katie Cash Davis said...

Me too! katiecashdavis@gmail.com

Lyssa Beth said...

I would love to see all your adventures on Dental school! I am curious to see how it compares to my experiences!!
lyssabz05@gmail.com

Nick, Jen and Spencer said...

tobler.family@gmail.com

Brian and Elizabeth Shelley said...

Congrats!!! We are so excited for you guys! please add us on your blog!

elizabethhelenshelley@gmail.com

Jared said...

Please add me Michelle! I love to keep up with your darling little family! palooza84@msn.com By the way this is Steffani Dastrup (Keetch) I"m on my brother's account.

Alissa said...

michelle, i'm totally a stalker, too. i haven't seen you in years, but i still think you're adorable! alissa - liz & alisa's roommate

abradfordgardneratgmaildotcom

Shelly & Danny said...

We'd love to be added to your list :) Acquaintances from High School.

Danny and Shelly Morris
1shellym@gmail.com

Megan said...

Hey Michelle!

I just wanted to let you know I'm one of those secret blog onlookers. I know we were never close friends in the dorms but we seem to have a lot of mutual friends. I even found a girl in my ward in Atlanta that had you linked! You just seem to be so popular :) I think the secret blog looking is so funny. I have people tell me that they look at my blog and I had no idea. Have fun in California!

Megan (Albertson) Armstrong

Kara and Kevin said...

We definately want an invite. I love hearing what is going on. If I didn't congrats you on your pregnancy , CONGRATULATIONS!! How exciting!
karahmcbride@gmail.com

The Jatens said...

Okay, so I blogstock you! (I found you on my sister's blog.) Ashley Boren Jaten iajaten@netzero.com

Rachel said...

I'll admit, I'm one of those "blog stalkers" too. I never thought I'd have to say it outloud. I knew you in High School and would love to be able to see what's going on in your life every once in a while. Congratulations on the pregnancy! I can completely relate to your blood drawing story! I'm 13 weeks, and after 45 minutes and two blown veins they finally got enough blood for the tests. lol. Anyway, my email is radams.atm@gmail.com. I'd love to be added.

Rachel said...

Sorry, I was Rachel Swartz in High School. :)

Jared and Leslie said...

Hi Michelle! This is Leslie Evans Lynton :) yes I do friendly stalk your blog we'd love to see what you guys are up to... here is our email jaredandleslie@gmail.com
Thanks! congrats on the pregnancy!
Take Care!

Sarah Tibbitts said...

We would love to be on the list. sarahtibbitts@gmail.com. Hope you're doing well. We miss you! Happy Halloween!